Help My Mom

This is a really hard ask for me: many of you know that my Mom had a stroke almost a month ago and since that time she has been living in a nearby facility. I know that God's plan and Will are so much greater than we could understand but today we were told that she was going to be discharged in 3 weeks to come home because she has not made enough progress, yes you read that right, because she isn't doing well they are sending her home to us. We love our Mother/Gramma so dearly, but we have 4 children in our house, and even though my parents have their own room, we are going to need to make some major changes to our home before it can accommodate her in her state of physical and mental capability. My Mother cannot lift either one of her arms to feed or care for herself. She cannot stand or sit up without help; she is unable to recall basic facts about the reality of the situation and has almost no understanding of time. I strongly believe that God has taken such good care of our family and that we are blessed but I am at the end of my rope here. Right now I have 3 options: 1. Bring my Mom home and try to care for the best we can with the setup the way it is. 2. Buy a hospital bed and move my Dad upstairs so my Mom can sleep in their room with another bed and just help out the way we can for now. This is complicated because my Dad is getting older and he cannot handle doing everything for her 24 hours a day. 3. Pay out of pocket to try and get her to a facility that will take care of. This is almost impossible because it will cost upwards of 5,700/mo. if we pay out of pocket. I am on my knees begging God to take the reins on this, and if He has a plan that involves money through this, then He will pull on your heart. I am so hesitant to ask for money because I don't want to ask anyone to bear the burden of my family for me. I am so sorry to come to y'all hat in hand but I write this with tears in my eyes because I told God I would do ANYTHING to help my parents out. Thank you and God bless you all.