Oliver Crowl was my brother. He was a son, a friend, and a good person to everyone he crossed paths with. Everyone considered him a blessing. This year (2025) Oliver met someone who he thought was the most amazing person in the world. So amazing that, in a couple months, they were married. That’s when things took a dark turn.

As soon as they got married, a switch flipped, and Oliver started being abused severely. He was being called names, told he was worthless, that no one liked him. He was being told his wife would take his life. He was being cheated on and lied to and he tried to remain calm while being beaten down. She started to beat on him physically, and when he tried to leave, she told him she was pregnant. She wouldn’t leave the home that he bought, so he felt trapped. She would threaten to kill the baby to keep him if he didn’t “obey” her when he would try to leave.

His wishes were few. He wanted his birds to go to a sanctuary. He wanted his brother to have his phone and computer. And he wanted the house sold. His wife not only won’t respect his wishes, but also tried keeping his ashes from his family.

Our mission is to seek justice for Oliver. We need to hire a lawyer for a wrongful death lawsuit and we need a lawyer to get his ashes to the people who actually loved him. And we need help. We are all grieving, and if you watch the videos and read the messages, you will feel the pain not only etched in Oliver, but in the entire world who knew him, that are now crying out for justice. All we want, is for Oliver to finally be at peace, and for her to not be able to get away with this and go on to hurt others. Our mission in the end is to bring light to narcissistic abuse and hopefully be able to help others fight for their family who may suffer the same fate. 

Anything will help. And if you would like to watch the videos and read the messages and his cry for help, please go to my facebook, James Crowl. And if you can’t help, I only ask that you please, send this to the next person and keep forwarding it until he can rest in peace, and we can rest knowing we did everything we could to bring justice. And if you are a victim of narcissistic abuse, please get away, and please seek help. You are not alone, and ending your life is not the right answer! You are loved!