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Support for Ongoing Family Court Legal Expenses

Goal$20,000 USD
Raised$865 USD

Fundraiser created byHeather Lilly

Fundraiser funds will be received by Heather Lilly

Support for Ongoing Family Court Legal Expenses

I’m sharing this because a number of people have asked how I’m doing and how they can help beyond praying for us. In 2023, I entered a family court process that is still ongoing in 2026. Because it involves my children, I’m choosing not to share details publicly.


What I can share is that for nine years I homeschooled my two boys while working part time as a professional photographer and serving as their primary at-home parent. Both of my children (now 12 & 15) are neurodivergent, with autism and ADHD, (aka AuDHD) 🧩 and being emotionally and physically present for them during my parenting time is very important to us.


After a lengthy legal process, in December 2025 I entered the full-time workforce for the first time since 2006. I’m genuinely extremely grateful for the role I’m in and excited to continue growing professionally. 🙌🏻 This new career path feels less like a re-entry and more like a natural extension of years spent managing complex responsibilities, advocating for my children, and running a small business.


Even so, the reality is that ongoing legal fees—billed at hundreds of dollars an hour—far exceed what I can realistically cover on income alone. I’ve already used savings, home equity, settlement funds, and a portion of retirement to cover prior legal costs, and there’s simply no feasible way to catch up on my own.


I don’t feel great asking for help, and this isn’t something I take lightly. This fund exists for those who feel led to come alongside me in a very practical way. Any support helps ease the financial strain of a prolonged legal process and allows me to continue working hard, parenting intentionally, and moving forward with integrity.


Thank you for reading, for your kindness, and for respecting the privacy of my boys. 🙏🏼


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