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Asking for Help When You’re Hurting

Asking for Help When You’re Hurting

Posted by Alex Shipley on Aug 4, 2025

Not every fundraising campaign begins with sunshine and rainbows—like an exciting trip, a long-awaited adoption, or a dream finally coming true.

More often, we see someone's journey with us begin in a hospital room. Or with a devastating phone call. Or in the middle of the night after the worst news you’ve ever received. 

Sometimes… it starts on the worst day of your life.
And while you’re still hurting, the financial burden starts to sink in.

You can barely breathe, let alone ask people for help. Grief, shock, fear, uncertainty—they’ve taken up residence in your chest, and the last thing you feel like doing is fundraising. What do I even say? How much do I share? Do I sound too desperate? 

People oftentimes come to our platform not just because they want to fundraise—but because they have to.
A loss. A tragedy. A diagnosis. A fire. An accident. An unknown that flipped their life upside down.

But we want you to know: we see you and...
 

You shouldn’t have to walk through this alone.


That’s why we do what we do.

When you start a campaign on GiveSendGo, you’re not just raising funds—you’re inviting others into your pain, your healing, and your journey forward. So, be honest in your campaign description and share your heart. People want to hear your why, your story, and how their generosity can genuinely help you in your situation. Your supporters will give because they care about you and what you care about. But more than that, they’ll pray. They’ll encourage. They’ll remind you that you're not abandoned or invisible. That you are surrounded by a community that wants to lift you up, even when words fall short.

You might not feel ready. You might not feel strong. But asking for help is not a sign of weakness. It's an act of courage and humility.

“Carry one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.”
—Galatians 6:2
 

Prayer is a gift that changes things


Every campaign on GiveSendGo gets a personal prayer call. Yes, every single one.

Our Hope Team is made up of people who don’t just pray—they understand. They’ve walked through grief, trials, loss, and fear themselves, and God has shaped their own pain into compassion for others.

So when you get a call from us, it won’t feel like a script. It’ll feel like a lifeline—a real conversation with someone who wants to hear your story, hold your pain with you, and bring it to God, who understands your situation and all the pain that comes with it better than anyone—and is the source of true hope.

“The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.”
—Psalm 34:18
 

What you can expect when you use GiveSendGo:

  • A simple and secure way to raise funds
  • The ability to share your story with people who want to help
  • Encouraging messages and prayer requests from others
  • A real prayer call from someone on our Hope Team
  • Tools to keep people updated and involved in your journey
  • A platform that points to true hope—not just financial relief
     
But more than anything else, we hope you feel seen here. Because you are.
We know how overwhelming it is to take this first step—especially when you’re still reeling. But God meets us in the broken places. He walks with us through the valley. And He uses the body of Christ to show His love in real, tangible ways.

“He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.”
—Psalm 147:3

“Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.”
—Matthew 5:4
 

If you’re reading this and you’re hurting—


We won’t pretend to have all the right words. But we’re praying even now that you’ll feel God’s presence and have confidence in Him in the middle of your storm. That you’ll know this: you are not alone, and this pain isn’t the end of your story.

Whether you’ve already started a campaign or are just thinking about it, we want you to know—we’re here to be a place where you can find help and hope, even in your darkest, scariest, and most uncertain moments.

A place where you can build a community ready to help carry the burden with you.

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