Not sure where to start but I have a Bi-Polar disorder 37 yrs old and currently living with my parents, I've lived place after place and keep ending up at square one. But now that I'm back here I literally have watched my mother abuse my father since I was little and he has worked on the railroad for 40 years, she always tried to take me away from him when I was little but she would always come back to him cause I wanted to stay with him. They finally bought a house in 2023 after living in what used to be a barn converted into a house. She has now used all of his money and has put him in debt through loans and affirm and they could lose the house. He's retired and hasn't seen a dime of his money cause she controls everything. All he likes to do is play with his cats and dog and she puts him down like he's nothing daily but he's just numb to everything and has been starting to show signs of Dementia. My mother has no one to talk to other than me and him because she shoves everyone out of her life like they are the problems and she could never do anything wrong. I'm slowly watching them fade away and she is filled with so much hate. My brother and sister live in TX and I would love to take my dad there around people who care about him than to be treated like dirt on the bottom of a shoe. I know if I leave him here they will fall apart cause I do all the work around the house other than letting him cut grass just to stay active. She took out a 5,000 dollar loan on my car because i needed 800.00 for rent and she used the rest to pay on one of her other loans so now I will lose my car if she fails to pay it. She wanted a new deck but I convinced her to get the tools and I restored it for her and put a wall around her pool to save her some money for paying someone to do it. My car is 18 years old and needs work but if I can fix it I'm moving closer to my bother and sister cause I never see them. I'm starting to end up like my mother from being around her so much that it's causing me to hate everything and everyone and I was never like that when I wasn't around her. It caused my marriage for 8 years to fall apart cause unlike myself my ex seen the problem, I'm not perfect by no means I know I have anger problems, and I always keep to myself and keep everything bottled up inside. But lately my mother keeps talking about having my father put into a home because she said she didn't want to raise another child but if i had it my way I would take him far away from her and let her sit alone just like she wants it to be.