Healing and Hope for Matthews Miracle

Goal:

 USD $5,000

Raised:

 USD $7,646

Campaign created by Kelly Lappa

Campaign funds will be received by Kelly Lappa

Healing and Hope for Matthews Miracle

Cancer is a diagnosis that everyone knows, but no one likes to talk about. For those who are diagnosed with cancer, the fight can take days, weeks, months, or even years. Some come out victorious in their battle with cancer while others are not so lucky. Cancer doesn’t just impact the person who has the disease; it also impacts their family and friends. It tests your faith, your patience, and leaves you asking the question “why me?” So where does one even begin when asking other people to help a couple where one person has been fighting stage IV colon cancer that metastasized to the liver and lungs for over 2 years? Before considering giving a donation, we would like to share Matt and Kelly’s story.

Both Matt and Kelly are in professions that help others. Kelly is a medical social worker while Matt is a special education teacher and intervention specialist. Matt is the type of man who is loving, caring, and giving while Kelly is understanding and compassionate in addition to loving and giving. Both are always ready and willing to help no matter how big or small the need is! As a special education teacher, Matt has spent most of his life teaching disabled students where he strives to not only inspire but motivate both students and coworkers alike.

While so many couples meet, get married and grow old together, God had other plans in mind for Matt and Kelly. They met in the summer of 2018 on a dating site, and after 5 years of dating, in November of 2022, they were married. What was supposed to be the start of an amazing new life together quickly turned into a battle with cancer. After only being married for two short months, Matt was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer that had spread to his liver and lungs. Matt’s medical treatment team was hopeful that Matt would have a positive outcome in his cancer journey and started him on an aggressive chemotherapy regimen. Matt responded well to the chemotherapy and was able to deal with the many side effects that come with this form of therapy. Matt was responding so well with the chemo that the cancer from his lungs became dead cells, and he was able to have liver restructure surgery.   

In May of 2024, Matt underwent liver restructure surgery to remove the cancerous cells from his liver. His surgeon believed that the surgery was a success and was able to successfully remove all the cancerous lesions from his liver. Matt’s medical team, wife, and family truly believed that Matt was going to have a full recovery, but this was not the case. Shortly after the surgery Matt began to experience multiple complications from the procedure that would lead to several hospitalizations, preventing Matt from resuming his chemotherapy and causing his colon tumor to grow and cause a small bowel obstruction. Throughout this difficult time, Matt continued to hold on to his faith and never once lost hope! But for those who have fought this illness will tell you, cancer has a mind of its own, and it can rear its ugly head when you least expect it! This is exactly what happened to Matt and Kelly.   

With all the complications that Matt has faced over the last year, he was finally able to resume chemotherapy; however his body and the cancer didn’t respond as well as everyone had hoped. The side effects were far worse, to the point where Matt was no longer able to return to his job, nor is he able to do the simple things that you and I take for granted such as going to the store, trips, and events/parties with his family and friends. The saddest part of this is that Matt is no longer a candidate for surgery to have the cancerous mass removed from his colon. Matt is currently in the hospital, and he along with his wife and family have received news that no one with this illness wishes to receive. Matt has been told that his cancer is terminal, and any treatment moving forward is palliative. The likelihood of long-term tube feed to help maintain Matt’s nutrition is highly probable, and due to having ascites, he will also need indefinite paracentesis via a PleurX catheter.   

As you can imagine, with all that Matt has had to face emotionally, physically, and medically, the many hospitalizations have placed a financial burden on them. Up until now, Kelly has been the only one working, and they have been able to manage financially. However, with the addition of copays for medication, catheter, and tube feed supplies to the everyday expenses and monthly bills, there is a significant financial burden.   

Through his heroic efforts, along with his medical support team and his loving wife Kelly, Matt continues the battle but now to prolong his life to give him as much time with family and friends as possible. Matt and Kelly’s family ask for your support and help in their moment of need as we try to help raise the funds they need for copays, so that Matt can have the tube feed and medical supplies he needs to keep fighting his battle with cancer. Any contribution made, whether it be big or small, will be so much appreciated by Matt and Kelly and their families! No one should have to experience this journey that Matt and Kelly, along with their family and friends are on. From the bottom of our hearts, thank you for your donation and know that every little bit will help to ease the monetary burden and help Matt fight to live another day. God bless you all! 

Recent Donations
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Rosetta
$ 21.00 USD
2 months ago

Healing and Hope for Matt
$ 50.00 USD
2 months ago

Praying for you both through this difficult time!

The Pepin Family
$ 50.00 USD
2 months ago

Anonymous Giver
$ 50.00 USD
2 months ago

You're in our thoughts and prayers 🙏🌈🙏🌈. Len and Bonnie

Kelly McClain
$ 50.00 USD
3 months ago

Thinking of you both and praying

Brian
$ 200.00 USD
3 months ago

Prayers and love ❤️

B Crane
$ 100.00 USD
3 months ago

keeping you both in my thoughts and prayers.

Bachar Hamade
$ 200.00 USD
3 months ago

Nancy Kaser
$ 50.00 USD
3 months ago

Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

Melissa
$ 50.00 USD
3 months ago

Anonymous Giver
$ 50.00 USD
3 months ago

My heart goes out to Kelly and Matt and your entire family!

Lauren Marconi
$ 100.00 USD
3 months ago

Thinking of you and your family during this difficult time. Sending prayers your way..

Lori Koenig
$ 25.00 USD
3 months ago

Laura Kroon
$ 50.00 USD
3 months ago

Thinking of you!

Ashley Coss
$ 100.00 USD
3 months ago

Sending love and prayers!

Jackie Knoll
$ 500.00 USD
3 months ago

As a long ago friend of the Lappa family, I have many fond memories of our adventures together and send prayers of comfort and healing to the family.

Lauren Crosby
$ 50.00 USD
3 months ago

Monica
$ 250.00 USD
3 months ago

Kelly & Matt - Will keep you in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Christine Rose
$ 25.00 USD
3 months ago

Anna C
$ 50.00 USD
3 months ago

Sending prayers for peace and comfort- may your days together be full of love.

Updates

Blessed beyond measure! Thanks and update to our friends and family

March 20th, 2025

    This journey that we embarked on 2 years ago led us into uncharted territory. Working in the healthcare field I have worked with patients and families throughout the many stages of life from birth to death and everything in between. All my years in healthcare never really prepared me for this season of my life, but then again is anyone every really prepared. Matt has been at CCF Main Campus for a week and a half where he was successfully started on tube feeds and is tolerating them well. His c-diff has resolved but is very week and unsteady so he will need to be transferring to Euclid Skilled Nursing Unit once medically cleared for some much-needed rehabilitation. He has hospital encephalopathy, so the need to move him to the next level of care is paramount. The hope is to get Matt nutritionally stable and strong enough to be able to go on immunotherapy to help prolong his life. We know that time is precious, and that tomorrow is never promised. I just pray that God will bless us with as much time with Matt as we are able to get so that we can make as many memories as we can before God calls him home.

    The outpouring love and support we have received since starting the funding page has been overwhelming and is a constant reminder of just how much my husband means to so many people! To know that in this moment, I am financially able to meet his medical needs while being able to take care of our other expenses has given us such a piece of mind and from the bottom of our hearts, we are eternally grateful! After talking to our families, Matt and I have decided to leave the fund open. If this journey has taught us anything, it's to expect the unexpected, and this is a skill that we have mastered very well in this family!  We also know that Matt will need continued medical supplies (chuck pads, wipes, gloves, etc.) in addition to paying for his medications (the medication list keeps growing), and so any additional support we receive, the funds will go towards all of Matt’s medical needs. We cannot thank you all again for all the love and support you have given to Matt. We are so blessed and thank God for each and every one of you!

Peace and much love,

Matt and Kelly Lappa, and the Kessel-Lappa families!


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