Our family is going through so much and I have no one close to me to lean on or turn to. Please don't judge my husband he is doing what we both feel is the best. My husband was working at a pretty good job but everyday they were finding things to complain about so my husband applied for an overseas contracting job. His other job had suspended him for a report of him sleeping on the job and they needed to investigate. During this time we were evicted from our home (yes for being 1 month behind) while fighting the eviction my husband was found that he was not sleeping and was able to go back to work. We then went to live in a motel because we had no where to go. We had money saved for rent and a deposit for a place but then our truck broke down on my way to driving my husband to work. The drive shaft came out. It cost is over $1000 to fix. During that week my husband got an email saying he was being hired by a private contractor and leaving for Afghanistan in 4 days. He left on Sunday. They have to go through training in the states first then will go overseas. They won't start getting paid until they are there. Which means November 15th is the first pay day. He will get back pay for the training days. Our savings are gone and the motel is paid for 1 more week. I tried to reach out to my community for help and mostly all I got was people saying I was lying or that my husband was a shitty person for leaving his family behind. I have the receipt for the truck and my husbands orders. Mind you once pay starts he will be making almost triple what he was making here. Some have suggested a go fund me but I just wish there was a church or somewhere I could turn that won't judge us. I'm already going through depression and stress. And my husband doesn't need to worry about us here. That's not going to keep his head on right. Someone suggested this site so here we go. We just need to ensure that our motel room is paid until he starts getting paid so that he knows we are safe. Once the income starts I can get us into a home.